'Independence: Thought and Teenager Essay\r'

' on that point is nothing much(prenominal) important than gaining independence to a stripling. Me, just like every other teenager couldn’t detention until I turned 16 so I could gain independence. What I didn’t understand was that the mistakes I had made in the prehistorical would prevent my p arnts from giving me the granting immunity and independence I deserved. The mistakes I had made in the past stop my parents from giving me the permission to drive by myself when I got my licence.\r\nI turned 16 on January 2, 2013 and got my license on January 5, 2013. Just like everyone other teenager I couldn’t wait to drive by myself and be independent until my parents told me I have to wait two months and gain their trust. I was upset more than ever. I didn’t know how to face my comrade and tell them because of the mistakes I have made in the past, I have to wait two months until I seat drive independently.\r\nMatter of fact, I got in trouble the day after my birthday, all because I decided to do something very foolish out(a) of anger I had towards my parents which just got brought me more suffering. I personally estimate the older I get, the more mistakes I make. I’m positive I’m not the only teenager who goes finished this phase. A couple of days later, I understood I had to pay the consequences for my foolishness and mistakes. This smart design only lasted until two days ago when I got in trouble again all because of a misunderstanding between my parents and me. This time it was my parents’ falling out.\r\nI opine that teenagers aren’t of all time wrong or doing something wrong. some(a) times it can be the parent/guardians fault as well. My parents and I have learned the stricter parents are, the more your small fry will go behind your jeopardize and do wrong things. Sometimes parents have to liberate up and talk to their children. Parents have to understand their child’s thoughts and change themselves according to the changing culture.\r\nTeenagers and children underwrite things and thoughts from their parents because they think they’ll get in trouble for communion their thoughts. This is not true. Ever since I became â€Å"friends” with my parents, I’ve gained their trust, independence and found it easier to talk to them about everything. Teenagers, including myself mostly think of their parents as their enemy just because they try to nourish you from the evil around you. I wish I understood this awhile back so I wouldn’t have misled my parents, did things behind their back and gotten in so much trouble.\r\nI most potential would’ve gained independence the day I turned 16. Yes my parents are a little over-protective and stricter than some parents but what I wasn’t able to see is that they have always protected me and prevented me from getting harmed. however neither can I blame myself for wanting independence no r I blame my parents for being protective.\r\nI have realized and learned a lot from this event that I thought was so horrible and life history ending. But speaking out of all honestly, I requisite this to recognize the difference between right and wrong. My family and I needed this to better understand each other. If I gained independence right when I turned 16, I would have never shared my thoughts with my parents and I would’ve keep to do go on the wrong path. I’ve also realized there is more to life when you turn 16 then just gaining independence. With freedom comes more responsibility.\r\n'